Read
Books
You are never too young for books. Many people are surprised that I
read books to my fourteen-month-old daughter every day and even more
surprised that I have done so since we brought her home from the
hospital.
Some would argue that a newborn reaps no benefits from this and that
the entire effort is lost. However, I have found that reading books to
my daughter has been a great bonding experience from our first reading
adventure to the latest story. It isn’t that I believe that a
newborn understands what is being said when someone reads books to
them. It’s just that the sound of the voice and the images on
the pages (though blurry) have a positive effect on the baby.
I also would read books aloud while I was pregnant, at least three
times each day. I started doing this while I was working. I worked with
young children and I would read books to my kids at work. I noticed
that the baby would kick when I read certain books. I thought that I
might as well continue to read books for her since she had a reaction.
This practice has been inherent in our interaction almost from day one
and I have no plans of making changes. My daughter loves when I read
books to her. She even responds to the word “book”
when I use it. She definitely knows what it is. This bond to reading
that she has is thrilling for me.
We have a daily routine that practically revolves around reading. Once
she and I get up in the morning, the first thing I do is read books to
her for a few minutes. This helps to wake us both and get our minds
working a little bit. She delights in the pictures and she loves to
turn the pages.
Right after lunch, we read books again. It serves as a kind of reward
for good eating during the meal. The next reading comes after dinner
for the same reason. I like to read books to her right before she
drifts off to sleep as well. She gets a bath, book then bed. This
routine works wonderfully and I find that there are less behavior
problems when we are on a schedule.
What’s funny is my daughter’s favorite story is
“Green Eggs and Ham” which is the same story I
would read aloud while I was pregnant. When I read books, this one has
to be on the list each time. Sometimes I wonder if she remembers that
book but that would be silly. Wouldn’t it?
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